recyclinage wrote:Obamot wrote: I also stop my "participation" there, I am not interested in a "match" or in its result.
for me here there is no match
I see two people coming up with claims and theories about what they don't know
two people who turn victims into culprits
I'm talking to gods who know better than me what is going on in my life
but i am gratified
... stop looking at your navel in a mirror.
- We are not here that two to tell you related things.
- We do not claim to know everything about your life, it is up to you to listen or not to "our external looks" and modest. Who are moreover not there to judge but to help each other face, in a way, the harshness of the world and subsidiarily to a "request" which would be yours to better understand it. Your problem is that you make a big mix between "friends" and "enemies" (the one suddenly becoming the other according to your personal conventions) and that you get frozen in a kind of "variable geometry paradigm". Basically the "match" is a bit like you doing it all alone in your mind.
As this approach does not suit you, especially when people are not of YOUR opinion, you feel attacked, you point straight away and bury yourself in personal attacks, thus the debate and quickly closed by your reactions .. What else?
Good luck in any case in all your efforts and good luck.