my boiler is able to heat water instantly
To my taste; yes, because your boiler has what power?
At least 15KW which is enough for a shower or bath with not gigantic flow.
Anyway, 60L is small and therefore you sometimes run out of your 60l quite quickly if "your boiler is able to heat water instantly" !! If this has never happened, she is capable of it for your personal use, not for 3 people filling a bath or a shower at the same time !!
The water arriving on the solar exchanger is already hot at the top of the tank, which puzzles me, because I would tend to send the cooler water from the bottom of the tank to heat it instead of recycling than the water from the top of the balloon which arrives from the bottom immediately goes back upwards !!
It would be good to make the diagram including the internal assembly of the boiler with 2 circulators!