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by roy1361 » 17/05/13, 22:16

Ha ha ...

If I'm not mistaken, you're Belgian, right? (so relatively modest compared to a French ...)

I'm at the Maitrank party next weekend (in Arlon, at a friend's house), I'll see if all this is true ...

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by Christophe » 17/05/13, 22:20

No am expatriate in the country of beer and fries ...

Follow 100 km from Arlon ...

I heard about the Maitrank party ... it's a heavy joke! Good hangover advance lol :) : Cheesy:
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by gina » 17/05/13, 22:24

Feminized site would mean that we should talk about ass?
NOT

have nothing to know that I have placed on the site of other example example recycle pallets deco interior, exterior
renovated our furniture in patina and ...
here is

here I put this to see if this time people go to react simply and I see that it works
the proof you leave me a message

I know that there are thousands of sites for this
I do not know how to talk about it everywhere and I do not see who can bother me : Idea:
So few people are prudish and limited in spirit.

good night
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by gina » 17/05/13, 22:25

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I heard about the Maitrank party ... it's a heavy joke! Good hangover advance lol :) : Cheesy:


NAN is cool party and metrank
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by gina » 17/05/13, 22:30

PREMATURE EJACULATION
ADIRS (Association for the Development of Information and Research on Sexuality)

This sheet from ADIRS provides some information on premature ejaculation (PE), also known as "rapid ejaculation".

What is premature ejaculation?

PE corresponds to the situation where a man ejaculates (emits his sperm, cums) too fast. In the most serious form, ejaculation occurs without any contact with the penis, either stroking or attempting to penetrate. The mere thought of an exciting situation triggers her. This is rare. It is more common for the premature ejaculator to ejaculate just before ("ante portas" ejaculation), or at the time of penetration or very shortly after it.

After ejaculation, the man loses his erection, so that during movement, his penis can not remain in the vagina, and produce the pleasant sensations that lead his partner to vaginal orgasm (enjoyment).

It is not uncommon for a man to ejaculate during sleep, often during an erotic dream. This has nothing to do with premature ejaculation, and is usually only a consequence of the fact that it does not ejaculate often enough for its physiological needs (during intercourse or masturbations).

What does it mean to ejaculate "too fast"?

Within the animal species, evolution has probably selected the strains that ejaculate quickly and this may have also been the case in the human species.
Sexual intercourse, though essential for the survival of the species, is a time of great vulnerability, during which vigilance is reduced. This moment is therefore propitious for a predator to seize beings copulating. Ejaculating fast gives more chances for the survival of a species by reducing the duration of copulation.
In any case ejaculation occurs very quickly in many animal species, and spontaneously most men ejaculate in less than two minutes if they do not learn to restrain themselves. But it usually takes more than two minutes of sexual stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm (enjoyment). Men had to learn to control themselves so that their companion gets pleasure by vaginal penetration, knowing however that the duration of penetration necessary for it to reach orgasm is all the less important that it will have been prepared for a long time before penetration by genital stimulation (touching). Thus, more or less well prepared, by appropriate stimulation of the vulva and / or clitoris, some women can enjoy less than a minute after penetration.

The most important criterion for defining EP is that ejaculation occurs before the man and his partner wish, and this is responsible for frustration, the woman's pleasure not being achieved, and man feeling mediocre lover. Hence suffering and often disturbances of their sexual relationship. We therefore see that we must take into account the needs and expectations of his partner, and ask him about it. A man can continue to ejaculate quickly if he thinks he is boring his partner or if he does not trust him. Conversely, in some cases, what seems premature for a man is already too long for his companion. But most often, an ejaculation that occurs less than two minutes after penetration is really premature for her.

Is premature ejaculation common?

This is the most common sexual problem in men. Most men ejaculate occasionally too quickly. There is no need to worry about it.
This becomes a problem when ejaculation is premature during most intercourse. The ACSF study conducted in France in 1991 and 1992 showed that among 1139 French men from 18 to 69, 65% suffered at least occasionally from EP, of which 11% often, among whom 5% often had ejaculations "Ante portas".

At what age does premature ejaculation occur?

PE can occur at any age, but it is more common in young men. Its occurrence is more correlated with the recent character of the sexual experience (for example new partner, or making love in a way, or in conditions, hitherto unusual) than at the age of man.

What are the consequences of premature ejaculation?

When persistent, PE can degrade the sexual function of both the man and his partner. Often the premature ejaculator complains of a decrease or absence of sensations of pleasure at the time of ejaculation. In some cases, secondarily difficulties may occur in maintaining erection, and a decrease in sexual desire: It is often because the man is so preoccupied with trying to control his ejaculation that he prevents himself from let go to the pleasure of the sexual act.

Often men imagine that the solution is to reduce the time spent on foreplay: The result is that the partner is not stimulated enough to reach a state of sufficient excitement. The report can then be painful because of a lack of lubrication: This can only increase anxiety, and make ejaculate man even faster. She may also have difficulty reaching orgasm, and this will reduce her pleasure. Finally, this often leads to less sex, which also makes ejaculating faster. The man and his partner are thus caught in a vicious circle that progressively worsens their problems and degrades their sex life.

What are the causes of premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is very rarely caused by a physical problem or illness. Most men tend to ejaculate quickly in their first reports. Certain situations, by creating a nervous tension (lack of time, fear of being surprised) prevent to relax (for example to have only a few minutes for a relationship with his girlfriend while her parents are out, or to have no other place to make love than the back seat of a car ... etc.). When the sexual experience increases, and when the context in which one can make love makes one feel safer, it becomes easier to learn how to control one's ejaculation.

The most common causes of learning failure in ejaculation control are therefore the lack of experience and frequency of intercourse, the fact that the sexual act takes place in bad conditions, the fact of being always tense and tense, not knowing how to relax, lack of self-confidence, factor of anxiety, feeling guilty, or feeling of being a poor lover.
All these negative feelings are reinforced by repeated failures. This further reinforces the anxiety and the deterioration of the psychological and sexual situation.

Fear of failure often tends to speed up ejaculation. Any remark made by the partner, sometimes without the intention of hurting, further aggravates things for the man who feels humiliated.

How to dominate premature ejaculation?

Most men manage to gradually overcome the problem of PE on their own. However, some need help most often by a specialist doctor. First, you should talk about this problem with your partner. Sometimes, although you think you are ejaculating too fast, she is actually quite happy with the sex she is having with you. Some men force themselves to ejaculate more often, for example by masturbating during intercourse, which makes them slower. Likewise, having a second consecutive intercourse often allows you to ejaculate less quickly. But this will not always be a solution, because there comes a time in life, around 35 or 40, or earlier, when you no longer manage to "double", that is to say to have two consecutive reports.

In some cases, a simple training can be enough: It consists in stimulating the penis by masturbating, or having it stimulated by his partner, and to stop any stimulation before the moment when one should ejaculate. Then we wait for 30 at 60 seconds, and we start again the same stimulation of the penis stopping again just before ejaculating. This series of stimulations must be repeated, followed by pauses and then repeated 5 stimulation or 6 once before being allowed to ejaculate. At first, we do this kind of exercise every time we masturbate ourselves or have sex with his partner.

In general, you will always be interested in caressing the whole body, then the genitals of your partner, ie to give a lot of time to the preliminaries, before entering, so that it is already close to enjoyment at that moment, and that it suffices for a duration of penetration not too important to achieve it. In addition, if you ejaculate before she has enjoyed, it is very important that you resume the caresses after ejaculation so as to strive to provide him all the same enjoyment by these caresses, which will be much better than turn away from him after ejaculating.

Are there products valid in sex shops, or in mail order?

Unfortunately most of the products that are offered under these conditions have not been studied seriously, and there is no guarantee of effectiveness.

What to do if the problem persists.

You have to consult. Your doctor can help you effectively if you are interested in sexual issues. Otherwise he can send you to a specialist sexologist or andrologist. In other cases we can help you orient yourself.

Different treatments can help you: Sexological counseling, sex therapy (which requires the participation of your partner and includes interviews with the couple, and a program of exercises to be done at home to better communicate physically and learn to control yourself), relaxation, in some cases produced in the form of gel or spray that is applied to the glans and which are likely to reduce its sensitivity, and more and more often today, various other drugs that are taken in the form of tablets , and which are active on the nervous system, making it possible to hold back longer. This is particularly the case with several anti-depressant drugs such as those of the family of "serotonin reuptake inhibitors". They are not used because premature ejaculators are depressed, but because we have noticed that besides their antidepressant action, these drugs delay ejaculation.

Today, most men with premature ejaculation can be improved. It must be emphasized that it is always beneficial, and often indispensable, for your partner to accompany you to the doctor's office, because thanks to the information he will give her, she will be able to understand you better and help you more effectively.
This fact sheet was written by the Association for the Development of Information and Research on Sexuality (ADIRS)
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by roy1361 » 17/05/13, 22:32

Christophe wrote:I heard about the Maitrank party ... it's a heavy joke! Good hangover advance lol :) : Cheesy:


Yes, it's heavy, it's 8 years that I go! If you're at 100 terminals, you can jump, right? (I'm good at 500, me ...)

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by Christophe » 17/05/13, 22:35

Yeah we could organize that!

But it must be nice weather because it is misery!

Contact me in Private Message ...
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by roy1361 » 17/05/13, 23:23

Christophe wrote:Contact me in Private Message ...


You got my mp ???
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by Christophe » 17/05/13, 23:43

No, are you sure you sent him to the right person? : Cheesy:
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by Obamot » 18/05/13, 00:05

Gina ... they pretend ...

But I think they are hot boiling there ( : Mrgreen: : Cheesy: )

While we're at Maitrank with beer & fries Image we could see each other between designers!
... and talk palettes, interior decoration, renovation of old furniture and turntables Image
I have very good vinyls Image
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