cfit appears as such because unlike an oral conversation, the voice accentuates certain aspects of a speech which is nonexistent in a text and which therefore passes by this kind of means leaves!Big bold fonts + exclamation mark all the time, I find that aggressive.
yes, by an emoticon! Hence my consecutive reflection "I understand so I guess 20 years, 40 years, 60 years; 80 years old? etc ...I did not answer the age.
But don't get me wrong, I appreciate most of your well-thought-out interventions most of the time. This particular point on determinism has occupied the life of philosopher and thinkers of all kinds, since humans ask themselves these questions and neither you nor I will answer them better than them. This is why it emerges more from a philosophical / religious discourse than from the order of a clear and definitive knowledge.